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Carolyn Louise Miranda-Patton

Carolyn Louise Miranda-Patton

Monday, March 10th, 2014

Carolyn Louise Miranda-Patton, age 68, passed away March 10, 2014, at home, after a long illness.

She was born to Tony and Sara (Aguirre) Miranda, April 13, 1945, in Pasadena, California.  Carolyn was a super wife, mom and woman, the matriarch of the family, before her illness.  She was bright, funny and artistic, sewing and doing crafts, decorating and loving antiques and collectables.

Carolyn is survived by her husband, Jude Patton, of Sedro-Woolley; children, Sara and her husband, Tim Manimtim, of Everett, WA, Christopher and his wife, Samaria Braman, of Aliso Viejo, CA, and Andrew Braman, of Laguna Hills, CA; grandchildren, Lauren, Courtney, Miranda, Jade and D’Andra Braman, Holly Closs, Grace Manimtim, Brandon Crawford and Cortney Manimtim; brothers, Tony and his wife, Michelle Miranda, Gary and his wife, Carrie Miranda and Bob and his wife, Nina Miranda, all of Orange County, CA; her little dog, Butterscotch.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

A Committal Service will be held at the Holy Sepulcher Cemetery, in Orange, CA.  Arrangements are under the care of Lemley Chapel, Sedro-Woolley, Washington.  

Guestbook

  • Marty Bahrami

    I think is was in early December 1969 that I first met Carol. She had just given birth to Andy who was two weeks old at the time and she was already working. She was a new employee and I didn’ really know her, but I found her sitting in the lounge at the Hospital where we worked as she was waiting for a ride. I offered her a ride home, struck up a conversation and was hooked for the next 44 years. To say she was special does not really describe who she was, although she was special and a genuine friend. She taught me many things about caring and loving family, even when they weren’t easy to love. She taught me about kindness and helping others not so fortunate. She had a glow about her that was magnetic. Besides taking care of her 3 children and husband, she was always there for her parents, her brothers, who she loved so much and her Grandma Tina, who I think inspired her all through her life. ( A widow left with many children to raise alone and even had her own little store). We had so many wonderful times together and we kinda looked alike, but not really. When we would go into a restaurant to drink coffee, smoke and talk for hours, there was always a kid who would say, “look at the twins.” It always made us laugh. Besides the days she passed, I think the other saddest day for me was the day she moved away. I missed her so much and so enjoyed it when she came back down to Orange County for a special occasion. Having a big family is a good thing, always something happening. And I appreciate all the family who always made me feel at home when I went to their homes with Carol. I was also happy she found Jude as she lived her last 26 plus years with him and know she felt happy, loved and cared for. My life will never be the same without her , missing our conversations and catching up with all the news of the family members. Her life is not the same either and for that I am relieved. She is no longer suffering and I am sure is at peace, visiting with all the loved one who greeted her, telling a joke or two and “living it up” for the first time in many years. Because we all loved her we will miss her, especially Jude and Sara. I pray for continued strength for you and pray the Lord lightens your burden daily. Always in our hearts. I love you Carolyn Louise Miranda-Patton and will miss you till we meet again one day. Love and hugs mi Amiga Marty Bahrami

  • Denise Olivas Garcia

    Carol, my dear cousin was someone all of us younger ones(as I am 57) looked up to and always knew that when we were with her we would have great fun as she always made sure of that. Her kindness and generosity was unmeasurable to everyone who was part of her life. She always put others first and displayed great energy even when the chips were down. I aspire to be like her but am no were near what she was able to achieve. Her laughter was infectious and could she tell a good joke and work the room!
    I think the treasure I will keep near and fear with me was her faith. I truly believe that it was her faith that got her through each day and kept her strong. She loved Jude and loved her family unconditionally! Jude, you became part of the family from day #1, we love you. So much to admire about this wonderful cousin of mine.

    She truly had a great connection with my mother “Tia Leen” as she called her and always made sure she acknowledged her regularly, whether it was her birthday, Easter, get well wishes or a thinking of you card or phone call. She would make my mom’s day with theses greetings. She LOVED my mom and my mom equally LOVES her too.

    1945-2014
    It will be that dash inbetween the year she was born and the year she passed on that I will cherish as the dash represents all the years of love, memories, stories, adventures, laughter and faith that she share with each of you and with me! Until we meet again, please continue to watch over all of us, your loving cousin

    Love and hugs to each of you-The Garcia Family-Henry, Denise and family

  • Michelle Miranda

    Carol was my sister by marriage and a special part of my life. With her passing on, amidst the mourning, such sweet memories fill my mind and comfort my heart.

    One of my first memories of Carol was when she planned a baby shower for me. She told me it would be just a “little family affair” – however there seemed to be more women attending than I could even count. To say I was overwhelmed would be putting it mildly. Carol did everything in a grand way and had such a flair – it was one way she showed her love for everyone. She enjoyed all things feminine and I remember her handwritten cards and letters with such lovely script. With the advent of email that is so rare these days. Carol never missed a birthday or special occasion and cards and presents always arrived early. A few years back she and Jude even sent me a condolence card after I had lost an animal of mine, because they knew how dear it was to me. Carol put her heart into everything she did.

    I remember Carol sending boxes to her Mom. What really stands out in my mind was her familiar script outside and the “I love you’s” and hearts all over the box. One box said “to the best Mother in the world”. I’ll bet the post office had a field day with all that writing all over the box! Mom was tickled pink to receive those boxes and it always made her smile. Mom even lovingly saved the paper since it was a treasure and work of art. It was just Carol’s nature to add those special touches that were her trademark.

    Carol was the best aunt in the world. She lavished my daughter, Martina, with love and praise and support ever since birth. She never missed a special function and in later years if she could not attend she would always call and talk to Martina. In teenage years Martina has rarely stayed on the phone for more than a minute – always off doing things with friends. But when Carol called or visa-versa they would have a nice long talk and I could always tell Carol was very involved in the conversation. She always asked Martina about the horses she was so fond of, how school was going, was she attending the prom, was there any boy she had her eye on….it was amazing how interested she was in Martina’s life. I know she cared and was involved in all the children’s lives. One year Carol heard Martina wanted to be Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz for Halloween and asked if she could sew her costume. Carol lovingly made the costume from scratch and it made one little girl very happy! Through the years Carol made keepsakes for Martina and never missed a chance to make her feel important and special.

    I had the honor of having Carol and her husband Jude participate in my wedding. While researching Hispanic traditions I read about the “lasso” or wedding rosary that is put around the wedding couple in a figure 8 while kneeling. It symbolizes the unity of two lives, two families and dates back as far as the Aztecs. It is especially meaningful if it is performed by a happily married couple. I asked Carol and Jude to place it around my husband Tony and I while a prayer was being said. I remember looking up at Carol and she was smiling so big. She gave me such a perfect and lovely memory on my wedding day.

    Carol and I loved antiques, lace, tea rooms and feminine things. We used to talk about how much fun it would be to open up a tea room in Seattle. We thought it would be great to call it “Two Sisters Tea Room” and have a room attached with handmade items for sale. Carol loved to do fine needlework just as I do. It was a nice dream for us to share and would have been a wonderful experience if it had come to fruition.

    Carol touched all of us with her positive outlook, big caring and giving heart, her laughter and strong faith in God. In recent years, despite her pain, when we would talk on the phone she was always concerned to hear how I was doing and what I was feeling. She never dwelled on her personal circumstances and always saw the bright side of things. One of the most striking things about her personality was how she handled her life with such grace and poise. During our last conversation a couple of weeks ago she asked me how my Mom was doing. My Mom’s health has been deteriorating due to Alzheimer’s. I was touched by Carol’s thoughtfulness and concern. In many, many ways she continually showed us what it means to be a true Christian.

    I know Carol would love that we are all sharing our thoughts of her and being close as one large family. Family was everything to her and we honor her by continuing to care for each other and lift each other up. I encourage you all to share your sweet thoughts of our dear Carol. Her memory lives on and sustains us until we meet her again.

    Love,
    ‘Chelle

  • Jude Patton

    My dear sweetheart, my wife, my love, my best friend, and my wonderful companion for more than 26 years. You fought for so long to survive the awful illnesses you were tasked with. Nine long years of terrible suffering, yet you bore your multiple losses without complaining, always there to comfort and care for others, as you had been doing when you were well. So brave, so kind, so loving. I loved your intelligence, your creativity, your sense of humor and your smiling, beautiful face. You set an example for others that will be difficult for anyone to follow. Thank you for bringing me into your family, who have welcomed me and cared for me as well as for you. I miss you dearly, but know you have found peace in the place you’ve dreamed of. Our spirits are joined through eternity. I have always loved you and always will, forever and ever, my dearest.

  • Rev. Moonhawk River Stone

    My deepest condolences to my dear friend Jude and his family at this time of grief.
    Carol and Jude’s love and devotion to each other were beautiful and powerful, and
    Jude’s loss is a deep one. May you all comfort each other knowing that Carol is now
    free of pain and suffering, and though lost to you in body, in spirit, she is but a heartbeat
    away. I send you all my care and compassion and prayers for you as you journey
    through the grief of losing Carol. My blessing to Jude and his family.

  • Sara Manimtim

    Words can’t express my sadness, my mom was an amazing woman who taught me everything I know. She was courageous in her long battle. Never wanting to give up and always prayed for others even in her darkest days and was as positive as she could be. She loved her family and her dog! I will miss our conversations. Until we meet again……love you always

  • Lois Yale

    Thinking of you and your family, Jude, in the death of your wife, Carol. May special memories of her better days carry you through this difficult time. Blessings to you and your family!