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Violet Fernando Memorial
Violet Fernando Memorial

Violet Fernando

Violet Fernando

Tuesday, November 12th, 2019

Violet Irene (Lyle) Fernando 1922-2019

Violet ‘Vi’ Irene Fernando, 97, the eldest elder of the Upper Skagit Indian Tribe, ended an adventurous and storied life on Saturday, November 9, at a Sedro-Woolley hospital.

Vi was born May 27, 1922, in Rockport, the eldest daughter of Lottie Tom.  Her grandfather, Frank Tom, ran the cable ferry across the Skagit River at Rockport for many years.  When the river was too swift for the ferry, Vi would sometimes ride with Lottie as she took passengers across in a cedar shovel-nosed canoe.  An acknowledged tomboy, Vi would join her uncles in hikes over the North Cascades to hunt and pick huckleberries. She passed a love of the river and mountains on to her children.

As a young child, Vi spoke a mix of Skagit Lushootseed language and English. At about six years old, she was made to go the federal Indian school on the Tulalip Reservation near Marysville, where Indian children were punished for speaking their language or practicing their traditions.  Vi thought she buried her Skagit language there, but she was delighted to relearn it in the 1970’s when a beloved cousin, Violet Hilbert, began teaching Puget Sound Lushootseed at many tribal centers around the Sound.

Vi’s first husband was Richard Moses of Marblemount, with whom she had daughter Linnette and sons Richard Jr. and Harold.  She met her second husband, Faustino “Fred” Fernando, near the end of the Great Depression when both worked picking strawberries on Vashon Island in King County. They married in July 1941, had ten more children, and remained together 54 years until Fred’s death.

Shortly after World War II they bought a small farm in the Kent Valley, and eventually sold produce at Seattle’s Pike Place Market, where Vi became known as the “Strawberry Queen.” Vi also worked as a tailor, and later both she and Fred worked at Boeing, though they continued farming.

Upper Skagit Indians regained the right to fish in traditional grounds in 1974, and Vi moved back to the Skagit Valley shortly after Fred retired from Boeing.  She had set salmon nets by cedar canoe with her mother, and was excited to learn drift gillnetting with her grown children, now using motorized river skiffs. Together, Vi and Fred would keep the campfire and coffee hot, and watched over the grandchildren at the family fishing camp.

In the late 1970’s Vi was elected to the Upper Skagit Tribal Council at a time of great change for the tribe, and was re-elected several times. She also became a Community Health Representative for the U.S. Indian Health Service, helping bring health care into the homes of Skagit people.

While she honored traditions, Vi had a zest for trying new things.  A Seattle food writer once asked about her favorite traditional cooking, and she told him how she loved her microwave. In her early 90’s, hands crooked and twisted by arthritis, Vi took up jewelry making, crafting beautiful necklaces, bracelets and earrings for her family.  At a casino slot machine, she would max bet just for the fun of it, laughing either way.  She loved to hunt, read, hike, dig clams, cook, can, sew, crochet, travel, along with many other pursuits, and passed these interests on to her descendants.

But Vi did slow down eventually, and in her last years living on the Upper Skagit Reservation she helped create, youngest daughter Carmella moved in to care for Vi.  Carmella made sure that Vi not only received good home care, but that she had fun, too.  Carmella was in turn helped by her sister Linnette, Vi’s first-born granddaughter Lana (who Vi lovingly called “her big girl”), and granddaughter Arianna.

Vi was preceded in death by all but one of her siblings; sons Richard Moses Jr., Eddie Fernando, and Harold Moses; and in 1995 by her beloved husband Fred.  She is survived by a boisterous throng, including youngest sister Wanda Pressley of Burlington; daughters Linnette Hernandez of Sedro-Woolley, Doreen Maloney of Mount Vernon, Beverly Lemen of Burien, Wash., Rosie Snyder of Kent, and Carmella Fernando of Sedro-Wooley; sons Fred Dennis Fernando of Kent, Jim Fernando of Bellingham, Vic Fernando of Yuma, Ariz., Andy Fernando of Yelm, Wash., and David Fernando of LaConner; 47 grandchildren, 84 great-grandchildren, 38 great-great grandchildren, and one great-great-great grandchild; plus many sons-and daughters-in law, nieces, nephews, and other folks who also just knew her as “Grandma Vi.”

A family viewing will be at 1-2 p.m. Nov. 14 at Lemley Chapel in Sedro-Woolley. A public viewing will held from 2:30 to 3:30 followed by a prayer service at 6 p.m. the same day at the Upper Skagit Tribal Gym near Sedro-Woolley. A traditional Indian Shaker funeral service at be held at 10 a.m. on Nov. 15 at the Gym. Vi will be buried next to her husband Fred in a private family service at Hillcrest Burial Park in Kent.  Funeral arrangements are by Lemley Chapel of Sedro-Woolley. Share memories of Vi and sign the online guest register.

 

Guestbook

  • Lainie Lacey

    There are no words that can speak to what an amazing, loving, and deeply loved person Vi was. Her kindness and compassion a role model to her children. So much fun too! She always laughed when I’d tease her about stealing Fred from her. They were such a perfect match. She will be so missed, but will live forever in more than our memories. Thank you, Vi, for having touched my life.

  • Debbi Melemai

    Condolences to the Fernando family. What a wonderful legacy she has left behind.

  • Jennifer Johnson

    She is my son’s Great-Aunt. What an amazing life she was able to experience. What a legacy of little humans she leaves!! Love and prayers for her swift and strong journey home…🙏❤🙏

  • Kristine Glasgow

    This world was blessed with a strong beautiful woman who showed her children and grandchildren how to live life with strength, integrity and love. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I know she will be missed by many. Much love to all of you.

  • Little Dave & Kristine Lemen

    We love you Grandma! Thank you for always having special time with each and every one of us! And thank you for the absolutely wonderful childhood memories! Rest In Peace Grandma. Rest In Peace.
    Dave & Kristine Lemen

  • Becky Bendixen

    What a wonderful example of a strong, Indigenous woman she was, yet as sweet as a rose. Her strength and perseverance were amazing and I am fortunate to have spent time with Vi and her beautiful family. May Jesus carry her family as they release Vi into the arms of our Lord. Prayers for Vi and her family.

  • Susan and Roger Martin

    Thoughts and prayers for everyone affected by this loss, what a wonderful woman !!! She will be missed by all, we love you Vi, sorry we could not be there, Susan and Roger Martin